We’re gonna gas you up big time here, because holy moly are you a force to be reckoned with! Deep down you might be questioning if you have what it takes to get to that next level, but the answer is a huge resounding YES! 🙌
You are capable of doing hard things, and you are worthy of doing all the things you’re only now dreaming about. Anytime you encounter thoughts that tell you that other people have something that you don’t, that’s your cue to pump up your own tires and remind yourself that you have everything you need to take on the next challenge.
👇 I’ve got just the pep-talk to make you feel unstoppable today. You can do this.
YOUR RESULT ↓
You're not alone.
Most of the people I work with one-on-one or in my online community are coming in with a mindset that's mostly negative. It's as though they're on a loop, hearing how they're not good enough, not smart enough, not a hard worker, and incapable of getting where they want to go. 😔
And by the way, our brains are sophisticated machines, and they're very good at creating a compelling case for why your self-doubt is super valid. Imagine everything you've ever done that was wrong, bad, or embarrassing, printed out into folders and carried up to the judge's table for examination. 😬 That's what it's like when our self-doubt shows up. It brings evidence.
Here's the thing though, you've got more control over our inner narrative than you think you do.
The consequences of buying into all that negativity show up all over your business or side-hustle:
🚪 YOUR OPPORTUNITIES:
You're unlikely to seek out opportunities that feel outside of your capability, so the self-doubt you hear on repeat is quite literally keeping good things from coming your way. 🙅
💰 YOUR WORTH:
There you go again, undercharging and undervaluing what you bring to the table, all because of what you hear on repeat. 🔄
😎 YOUR CONFIDENCE:
You can read all the marketing tips you can get your hands on, but if deep down you're doubting your ability, afraid to be seen and judged, there's no way you'll be able to infuse confidence into what you're putting out into the world. They can see through it. And you know that, which makes it even harder to show up...
It's time to change the channel 👊
⚡ Less "I'll never get there," more "I can do this."
⚡ Less "I can't because I'm bad at it," more "I can learn anything I put my mind to, all I have to do is start at step one."
⚡ Less "I'm lazy and unmotivated," more "I am capable of doing hard things. I might not get it perfect right away, but I care more about small, consistent progress."
YOU are your biggest roadblock. This episode is where we'll deep dive the mindset blocks that keep you from taking action in a way that aligns with your goals.
These surface blocks and deeper subconscious blocks act as excuses that slow down your progress. Let's talk about how to shift the power back in your favour.
Everything that feels comfortable now was something you needed to learn at one point or another. Even in reading these words, we see examples of learned behaviours! And look, I can toss in a word like "hypothetically" and you cruise right through it! My 7 year old would be quite impressed.
Your comfort zone will try to tell you to avoid effort of all kind because effort = possibility for failure. This is a topic I could nerd about for hours, and it's something we go deep on together in my online community, CHEER CAMP.
Don't believe the lies of your comfort zone today, my friend. You are WILDLY capable. You can do this.
I'm Laura Kelly, a life & business coach living in Ottawa, Canada with my husband (we've been together since we were 17!) and our two kiddos, Cooper and Jilly.
My daughter may or may not have been named after one of the Real Housewives of New York, which should help to set the tone for my deep, deep love of reality television.
I've been self-employed since I was 21, when I quit my job as a legal assistant to pursue photography full time. In 2018 I realized I had built that business beyond my wildest dreams, and I knew I was ready for a new challenge. Now, I help people like you discover how to quiet their self-doubt so they can fearlessly go after their next goal.
I'm big on romanticizing life, celebrating progress of all sizes, and the impact of long-haul personal development vs. focusing on quick fixes.
If you’ve ever made something and no one bought it, or written something that no one bothered to read, or if you’ve wanted something and didn’t get it — this episode is for you.
Fence-sitter, I see you… You feel like you’re on the precipice of something really cool, but there’s also a lot of fear and hesitation keeping you from jumping in. You'll like this one.
You're the exact person I created this community and personal development program for. I'll show you how to turn up the volume on your inner cheerleader, who will be there with frequent reminders that you can anything you put your mind to.
At CHEER CAMP we layer on personal growth & development concepts each month, so that you can quiet the forces of self-doubt, comparison, and imposter syndrome, to harness the confidence to go after whatever it is that you truly care about, on your own terms, at your own pace.
I'll be popping into your inbox later this week with some more insight on how you can change the channel on your inner dialogue to a station that's more supportive of what you want to create for your life and how you want to feel while you're living it. 🙌
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